Complete straw man. The custodian submits to no service level agreement, (any more than any other parent does, which is basically to make sure your kid doesn't die.) "Each parent provides money AND an expense listing to a third party who administers the escrow for the kids. That way, there is oversight on how the funds are spent." So you want additional administrative staff? More bureaucracy? Who's paying for that? Not me, I hope. If they take it out of support, there won't be a single cent left for the kid. You know as well as I that a system like that would NEVER run in the black. And again...Nothing has changed. These were the rules on the day you didn't pull out. You knew what the potential pitfalls were.